Is Your Relationship A Major Stress In Your Life?

Coming to the realization that what you thought was a relationship low point has become your everyday norm is hard. It takes you to a place of quiet desperation. You know that going on this way isn't an option, but if you knew how to fix things you would have done it long ago.

Facing the idea of a separation is both scary and devastating. Staying is hard too if it means dealing with constant feelings of frustration, resentment and contempt about and from your partner. Life indeed is too short for that.

I see you. I've been there. And so have countless other women who were searching for a miracle - something to move them forward out of the fear and sadness and into a place of confidence and connection.  

You have two options...

Most of the women who make the decision to work with me deep down are hoping that they can figure out a way to get their relationship back to a place that feels good. They want to feel connected to their partner again. They want the stress and tension to be gone and the conflicts to end. Many want to stop feeling like they walk on eggshells in their marriage. They want to feel secure and in love like they once were. 

But often, things have been a struggle for a while and they aren't sure if anything is going to work. They have tried therapy, read all the books, and begged their partner to work on themselves. 

You may feel stuck in indecision because it seems like all the options suck. So week after week passes by and things might be a bit better for a bit, then worse again and the cycle continues. 

So you really have two choices:

1. You can either learn how happy women show up in relationships differently so that you can shift your relationship in a new direction, or confidently release it with no regrets, or...
2. You can keep doing what you are doing which, stats show, will likely lead you to separation or divorce. At the very least, it leads to a lifetime of unhappiness. 

It really comes down to creating your future with intention or just letting life happen to you. 

My proven approach is designed to:

✅ Give you a new, clearer perspective on your relationship so that we can work on the actual problems, not just the symptoms. This is not a cookie cutter approach where you are told to go on date nights or hug for 10 seconds every day (how frustrating is that?!). This approach is personalized for YOU based on the root causes of your unique relationship challenges. 

✅ Help you understand conflicts in a whole new way so that you can show up effectively and become part of the solution (instead of part of the problem!).  You will learn how to communicate so your partner no longer gets defensive or angry and in a way that allows you to feel heard and opens your partner up rather than shutting them down. Unhappy couples do conflict in a way that makes things worse. We will change that together so that you never again have to wonder how the smallest thing turned into a huge argument.

✅ Provide you with what you need to release the resentment, mistrust, and hurt that goes along with feeling unappreciated, misunderstood and depleted from months or years of a difficult relationship. This is a game changer. The harsh truth is, resentment keeps you energetically connected to past problems. And as long as you hold on to the past, you cannot create the future you really want. My transformational approach helps you to let go of what no longer serves you so you can move forward towards the life and love that you deserve. 

When you make the choice to work with me, you make the choice to finally take your life back and learn how to create a relationship that feels safe, fun, and free. So even IF you decide that your relationship is no longer where you want to be, you will feel self-assured, confident, secure and looking forward to a bright future.