Is your relationship a major source of stress in your life?
Coming to the realization that what you thought was a relationship low point has become your everyday norm is hard. It takes you to a place of quiet desperation. You know that going on this way isn't an option, but if you knew how to fix things you would have done it long ago. Facing the idea of a separation is both scary and devastating. Staying is hard too if it means dealing with constant feelings of frustration, resentment and contempt for and from your partner. Life indeed is too short for that.
I see you. I've been there. And so have countless other women who were searching for a miracle.
I have helped hundreds of smart, successful women take their life back and discover how to create a relationship that feels safe, fun and free or move forward with peace.Â
- No more late night fights.
- No more stressful weekends feeling lonely but also wishing you could be alone.
- No more paragraph long text messages trying to explain your point.
- No more tears, begging him to understand or hopeless negotiations.
- No more ruined vacations.
If you are ready to get started down a different path and figure out the future of your relationship, let's chat.Â
Click below to book a no-cost Consultation Session. This session is designed to help you get clear on where your relationship is at, where you would like it to be and what is blocking you from creating the marriage you really want.Â
Relationships should add joy and support to your life, not steal from it. Â
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If you are trying to figure out how to fix your relationship or if you should leave it, you are in the right place.
If you have a string of failed relationships and want to figure out how to find happiness with the right partner, you are in the right place.Â
If you feel stressed out, depleted, sad and you're wondering where your joy has gone, you are in the right place. Â
A Bit About Shari.
Holistic Life Coach, Best Selling Author and Creator of Relationships By Design.Â
For more years than I care to count, I struggled in a difficult relationship. Between infidelity, a grumpy and critical partner, and the constant pressure of balancing a busy career with raising kids — I felt like I was doing everything right… and still ending up unhappy.Â
I read the books, listened to the podcasts, went to therapy — I tried all the things. But no matter how hard I worked to fix the relationship, I kept ending up in the same painful patterns - walking on eggshells, endless late night discussions and too many weekends and vacations ruined.Â
Eventually, I realized that another year of the stress was not an option for me. So I took all my training, my research background, and my drive to figure this out — and I started studying how women who are in happy, healthy relationships actually think, feel, and show up differently.Â
What I discovered blew my mind.
That research became the foundation for what I now teach inside Relationships By Design — and there’s truly nothing else like it in the relationship space.
Relationships By Design combines deep emotional insight, practical tools, and the kind of inner work that actually changes how you show up — so you can break the old patterns, shift the energy between you and your partner, and finally create a relationship that feels good to live in.
Sometimes, that means building something new together.
And sometimes, it means walking away — not out of anger or burnout, but from a place of confidence and clarity.
This is where practical psychology meets spiritual-science — the space where patterns dissolve, energy shifts, and your relationship (or your future without it) finally begins to feel like home.
My mission is to help women reconnect with their power by shifting the energy they bring into their relationships — so they can stop over-functioning, stop walking on eggshells, and start building the kind of connection that feels good to live in.